Pretty Girl!

Why do you let them treat you the way they do? How can you not speak up, hell yell it out, “I deserve better!” You may not have the memorizing curves, or long silky curly locks that flow down to your backside. You may not have the snap on smile that is carefully implanted to perfection. You may not have the brains that would solve the worlds greatest riddle. You may not be where you want to be in life, financially draped with everything money can buy. You may be unmarried with children and overwhelmed with the weight of the world. However, you are beautiful! You have legs for days that travel all the way up the most sweetest, exotic place! Your heart is pure and giving, and your smile…oh my god, will make the saddest clown smile! You have everything god gave you in order to be wonderful and unique! Enjoy who you are, be the you that you are destined to be! Love yourself, and enjoy…..no one else is like you! You were created for a purpose, find out what it is and live up to it! No one can be you but you! Love yourself! Be yourself! Let God lead you to what you want and who he designed you to be! I love you and when you be who you are….others may not, but most will!
To me……from me!

Say what you mean….mean what you say!

I know that our feelings are tied to emotions as women however we should always be clear on what we want to say before saying it. Making life decisions based on a moment is unhealthy especially when it involves someone else outside of yourself. Who wants to play the “She loves me, she loves me not game?” Life is too short!!! Completely close one door before you open another! Being stuck in the middle is always an uncomfortable feeling!

Who in the world?

At the end of the day a person can only be someone else for so long! Maybe they didn’t change……this is who they were the whole time. #wolvesinsheepsclothing!

A Few Thoughts Of Self~Esteem!

A Few Thoughts Of Self~Esteem!I think well of myself…This is Good!I accept myself because I realize that I am more than my foibles, mistakes, or any other externals. Criticism is an external and I examine it for two ways to improve, without concluding that the criticism makes me less worthwhile as a person. I try to criticize my own behavior without questioning my worth as a human being. I am learning to enjoy myself and though I am not fully redeemed as far as my self~esteem, I’m on my way!

via A Few Thoughts Of Self~Esteem!.

A Few Thoughts Of Self~Esteem!

I think well of myself…This is Good!

I accept myself because I realize that I am more than my foibles, mistakes, or any other externals. Criticism is an external and I examine it for two ways to improve, without concluding that the criticism makes me less worthwhile as a person. I try to criticize my own behavior without questioning my worth as a human being. I am learning to enjoy myself and though I am not fully redeemed as far as my self~esteem, I’m on my way!

The World Is Coming To An End!

The world is coming to an end! The air is polluted, the oceans contaminated, animals that normally live in peace loyal to us by nature are abused and tortured for sport, the economy is collapsing, education is no longer as important……how can we as humans go on? Little girls are being brainwashed to believe that the images they see in the latest music videos is what they have to look like in order to be beautiful permanently lowering their self esteem all because they weren’t born that way. Boys are also falling to this because in the music lyrics they listen to glamorize pimping, drugs, illegal money and jewelry.Leaving the preciousness and the very essence of the woman behind,unappreciated, out of the picture….unknown! Police are nefarious when it comes to their authority and justice has now become favoritism (favorite * is * hmm). We are enraged but controlled and caged , too afraid to stand for something because our youth makes it all for nothing, who will take responsibility? The pain of others make it to social media as a source of entertainment and the lives of reality stars and their good fortunes make it to the 6 o’clock news, how crazy is that? Technology has given us everything we want and has taken away everything we need, all things that make us human! A change is needed, in order for mankind to survive!

Robert F. Kennedy once said that “Few will have the greatness to be in history but each of us can work to change a small portion of events and the total of all those acts can be written in the history of a generation!”

For Humanity’s Sake!

There was this kid that was doing a secret short documentary. This same kid went to a few different pizza parlors and randomly selected individual customers who were sitting alone with a whole pizza in front of them and asked for a slice because he was hungry. Although he wasn’t, he wanted to see how many of them would be kind enough feed him, a kid mind you, out of the goodness of their hearts. No one offered, he was saddened. Now after that, the kid and his friends were walking and talking about what had just happened. They came up with the idea that the friends would find a homeless person and buy him a box of pizza. They found a man down on his luck and offered him the pizza and he graciously accepted it. The kid returned to that same man and asked him for a slice of his pizza and the man was much obliged.

Sometimes those who have less, give more!

“We make a living by what we get but we make a life by what we give!”

Back Up!

Sometimes we think that life’s picture is so clear, but often times we are too close to it and we only see the images in front of us and not the entire view. Back up!!! Take in the whole scene, look at all the colors and shades then analize them…..your perception will be much more open and the view will be much clearer.

A Mothers Love!

I can only tell you through my own experiences what this world is about. You win and you lose but with both there’s one thing in common….you learn! If you look to people for your happiness, you will be let down most of the time. However, when you look to God you’ll find your answers and your peace along with your strength. I love you!

If only you knew…..would it change anything?

If you knew how much I loved you, would it change anything? If you knew that every time I saw you, I feel butterflies and heartache at the same time, would you hold me and tell me that everything will be alright? I hear your voice in so many things around me, your scent lingers even when your not around, I still feel your touch! I love you and the thought of you being able to just walk away as if I never existed kills me! How can you see me and not feel anything…or do you? Inside I’m spinning, memories of our good times and memories of the bad times make me miss you more. I can’t control my feelings or my thoughts but I can control my actions so I choose to not say a word… if I did, would you really hear me? I wish that I was a bitch! I wish I was nagging! I wish I was unkind to you so then i’d understand why you left after nine years! How can you hurt someone that loves you so unconditionally? I loved you though your faults! We were best friends! You had my heart and you knew it! What do I do? They say that when you love something, you let it go and if it comes back then it is truly yours, however instead of just letting go shouldn’t you also fight for it? I want to fight but at the end of the day I can’t tell if that’s what you really want. I’m stuck between the then and the now! Then, we talked about if this was ever to happen, the other should fight and not simply say “oh well”. Does that still apply to us now? I’m so confused! Occasionally when we are in each others presence, I catch you looking at me in the way that you use to….your eyes say what your mouth won’t. This is torture for me, can’t you see that? I am living in my nightmare when it comes to you! I use to wake up in cold sweats from the dreams I’d have like this and now this is my reality! I use to dream of you leaving and now I dream of you returning…..I can’t breathe! This is all in my heart and what I feel right now but I will only feel this way for so long! I’ll love you for always but the in love part will heal the longer we stay like this! I am a good woman and I deserve better from you and honestly, you deserve me but you’re too blind and caught up in the now to see it. So i’ll wait but only for so long then once i;m gone…..i’m gone! If you’re willing to take that chance…..take it! But if you still want me deep down in your heart don’t let me go! I love you for who you are and for who you aspire to be!

If only you knew……would it change anything?